“To say that Deaf Child Hope’s 2024 mission trip to Jamaica changed me would be an understatement. Its effect on me is more like a paradigm shift that will impact my life going forward in multiple ways.”
I’ve been told that I am bad at admitting when I am wrong. I am even worse at apologizing. By the end of this piece, I will do both. I do not know if I will do them well, but I will do them with full sincerity, if that counts for anything.
I first became aware of Deaf Child Hope (DCH) three years ago while I was pastoring a small church in rural Oklahoma. JD King (DCH’s founder and CEO) came to the church as a missionary. I was moved by the presentation and sponsored my first deaf child at that time. Last Fall, I asked JD to speak at my new church in Midland, Texas, and it was then that I committed to go on a DCH mission trip which I just returned from this week. We visited two different deaf school campus’ plus the Jamaican Deaf Village during our week in Jamaica.
On the trip, I became impressed with one of the teachers at the Knockpatrick campus named Peter who always had a sunny disposition and a great rapport with
the students. Peter and I had several conversations during my time there, and, at one point, he asked me if I had been given a “name sign,” a way that deaf people abbreviate their names with a single gesture. It is a kind of nickname, but it can only be given to someone by a deaf person. I did not have a name sign, and I determined that if a child gave me one while I was on the trip that I would sponsor that child. The next day, Peter introduced me to a teenage girl named Brittney. We had a conversation (with Peter’s help), and, when she found out that the people of Latin America know me as “El Oso Fuerte” (the Mighty Bear), she gave me a name sign that essentially means the same thing in Jamaican Sign Language. Peter knew at that point that I would sponsor Brittney. What he did not know is that I had decided to sponsor him as well. It will be a great surprise when he gets my sponsorship letter to him!
This next part is an admission of guilt in some ways and where I would like to offer an apology up. Prior to this trip my mindset was that if a person is deaf then their hearing needs to be corrected. They cannot hear, I reasoned, and they should be able to get “fixed” by getting cochlear implants, hearing aids, or at least strive to lip read so that they can communicate with hearing people. I did not realize that the deaf do not see themselves as missing anything. They view themselves as being a part of a distinct culture with its own complex and beautiful language.
While in Jamaica, I saw the Deaf through their own eyes and I realized how offensive my views about them were. I realized that it is just as wrong for me to tell a deaf person that their culture and language are inferior, as it would be for me to say that to a person born French or German or Guatemalan or Egyptian. I was wrong, and to the deaf people of the
world I say,
“I am sorry. You are the way God made you. You do not need to be fixed. You don’t need to learn how to read my lips for us to have a connection. If I want to communicate with you, and I do, then I will learn your language.”
To say that Deaf Child Hope’s 2024 mission trip to Jamaica changed me would be an understatement. Its effect on me is more like a paradigm shift that will impact my life going
forward in multiple ways. I am praying about starting a deaf ministry at my church. I am sponsoring two more precious people who can use a hand up in this life. As God provides, I will sponsor more. I will become a collector, not of stamps or baseball cards or exotic cars, but of souls, and what could appreciate more in value than the spirit of a person who will live eternally with God due in part to my support of just a few dollars a month. I cannot think of a more worthy investment than that.
-Pastor Jason Shepard, Midland, TX.
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